♪ safety, safety first! ♪ safety first! (they're all pumped up) this is great! i missed you all. i really missed you guys. after the last episode aired so many people have encouraged us, so we'll try our best to make
another great show today. - great. / - good. we started off by saying the show's name. now we're going to have a safety battle. a safety battle. people go through big and small accidents in their lives, right? how much danger have you been in? we'll talk about it here. first...
the one that's lived the longest... - me? / - you've probably... been through more danger than us. we'll hear from jungyu first. there was this one time i was shooting a historical drama. they use fake swords during shoots. right. i'm supposed to draw my sword
and pose for the camera for the title shot. they said to use a real sword. the scabbard... drawing from the scabbard is really far out. i wasn't paying attention and i drew like this. the artery on my wrist... i cut it. i almost died!
let me see. - here. / - where? - i don't see anything. / - here. - that's just the line on your hand. / - this. no, right here. that doesn't look so bad. - anyway, anyone else? / - geez... i don't know if i should say this... i almost died once.
how? i almost died too. i almost died from cutting my wrist. when i was in 2nd grade... there's seocheon in yeongju. i took a wrong step at a waterfall and i fell in. an older university student that was fishing swam in and rescued me.
- really? / - i really almost died. i'd like to find him if he's watching this now. i've had many brushes with death. i got really hurt when i was 5. this is a true story. a bus ran over my foot. you don't feel anything if it goes by fast. what was really amazing
was that i was taken to the hospital right away... - but i wasn't injured at all. / - see? - it passed by fast. / - yes. - for me... / - yes. - what is it? / - have you ever... been stepped on by a cow? you were stepped on by a cow? then you'd get a hole in you. i was stepped on by a cow.
that was the worst pain i've ever felt. for real. - the host is lying. / - for real! it should've stepped on me and walked along... - but it stepped on my foot... / - and stood there? - yes. / - it stood there? i thought i was going to die. ever been bitten by a tiger? a tiger in the zoo.
i'm telling a true story! i'm not joking. if you really want to know, let a cow step on you. let a cow step on you. - one with a lean. / - it really hurts. why are we coming up with dangerous situations? so anyway... there are many dangerous situations. you should all know
how to stay safe because you're hosts of this show. we'll do our best so that many people can learn and escape from danger. on the right side are the old-timers... oh, come on... - so insulting... / - yb and ob. to make it easy to understand... we have the wisdom of the old-timers
and the wit of the youngsters. we'll protect families in danger! time for our first segment. he's so clumsy. son shin dongwoo. oh, i forgot! really absent-minded. mom lee hyeonjeong. trouble-maker dad lee sejin.
korea's first safety sitcom. the dangerous family. time for a date. not these people again... hello? please hurry over here. right now! so much for my date. there they are.
excuse me. what's going on? a fire started while we were camping. i have no idea why a fire started. a fire wouldn't start for nothing. please explain yourselves. the thing is... how nice! they're on a spring camping trip.
dad, we brought too much stuff. no. we need all this stuff. what did they bring to the camp site? we didn't bring much. oh, please. we packed everything but the kitchen sink. she's right. that really is a lot of stuff. this isn't a lot.
we need cooking equipment to eat. our son needs to use the laptop. and i need a chair to rest on. honey, i brought your radio. oh, geez! why didn't we just stay home then? just leave it to me. go inside. son, you too.
gosh... get it together. camping is fun but it could be a lot of trouble. what did you do next? i started to cook. the knife? honey, my cell phone is almost out of battery. where can i charge it? ta-da! i brought this. he even brought that?
where do you plug that in? i brought an extension cord so that we could use electricity. camp sites have those. they do. - he's pulling the cord. / - right. here you go. i'll plug my phone in. - and my laptop. / - good.
how nice. a woman shouldn't be somewhere cold. i'll make you warm. using her phone on a camping trip... i think it's dangerous. it is. - a multi-tap... / - they plugged a lot in. i let my wife and son rest as i started to cook.
- why even go camping like that? / - right. - just stay at home. / - right. why isn't this catching fire? honey, i'm hungry. is it much longer? want help? no, no. we can eat as soon as the fire starts. just wait. guys look cool when they start a fire. - when the girl is resting... / - right.
did a problem arise when he was starting a fire? we spent forever trying to get the fire started. - right, honey? / - i couldn't get it to start. so we ended up eating cup noodles. yeah. he's working hard. so he used a portable stove too. - the fire won't start. / - portable stove...
- it's boiling? / - it's boiling? cup noodles are best enjoyed camping. - that looks good. / - thank you. they satisfied their hunger thanks to the cup noodles. honey. do you smell something burning? it's my burning love for you. not that.
nice comment. what's that? goodness, what is that? what caused the fire for this dangerous family? that's a hard one. we saw a lot of fishy things. right. a few things that stuck out. - what was there? / - first... using the multi-tap.
and the extension cord was touching the grass. there could be moisture on the grass. - amazing. / - the torch. he used the torch a long time when he was trying to start the fire. maybe leaving that on caused a fire since the charcoal burned a long time.
i think fanning the charcoal was the wrong move. nice, old-timer. nice! he's used charcoal more than us. in his era, they chopped firewood in the mountain. you're supposed to blow on it, but it was already windy and sparks were flying around everywhere.
it could've flown somewhere and started a fire. - precise. / - great answer. old-timers are different. dongwoo, you know the answer, right? i was there for the shoot. so i know the answer. don't tell us the answer now. we saw many things. the multi-tap
was placed on top of styrofoam. that's what i suspect. maybe it's electricity from the cord. i think it's the portable stove used to boil water for the cup noodles. the stove and the extension cord. i think it's the cord too. i think the cord could be a trick. the cord was really thick.
i don't think moisture caused the fire. - i think it's a problem with the charcoal. / - i see. we came up with some conclusions. we'll find out now if one of these was the right answer. the cause of the fire... was... the extension cord that was used while rolled up.
if you look at sites or blogs for camping enthusiasts, there are many stories about cords melting or fires starting when using an extension cord that's rolled up. if you take a closer look at the extension cord, it says to unravel the entire cord before using. so we compared to see the difference between an extension cord that's been unraveled
and one that's rolled up. first, we prepare 2 extension cords. we'll unravel the entire cord. more, more, more... finally, the cord has been completely unraveled. first, we'll attach a thermometer to the unraveled cord to measure the temperature. we'll conduct the experiment with the cord
rolled up for the other extension cord. the cord is rolled up halfway, the thermometer is attached and the rest of the cord is rolled up. next, we plugged in an electric mat, an electric furnace and an electric grill which are commonly used at camp sites. before we turned the power on,
the unraveled cord was 20.7â°c and the rolled up cord was 21.7â°c. what difference will we see? the electronics are turned on and now we'll observe the temperature changes on the unraveled cord and rolled up cord over time. first, let's see the temperature change on the unraveled cord. an hour later...
it was 20.4â°c, which is 0.3â°c cooler than when the experiment started. then how about the rolled up cord? the temperature at first was 21.7â°c. it's going up. 10 minutes later, it was 36.6â°c. - that high? / - it keeps going up. will it go over 100â°c? 30 minutes later,
it climbed up to 56.5â°c. this is very dangerous. 49 minutes into the experiment, the thermometer stops at 70â°c. the rolled cord was timed for an hour just like the unraveled cord. then we used an infrared thermometer. the rolled up cord was 95.6â°c. we turned the power off and unraveled the cord.
unravel, unravel... more, more... what is this? the cord in the inside is melted and stuck together. if you take a closer look, you can see smoke. the cord peeled off and it's hard to pull apart. what happened?
when a cord is rolled up, the heat from the cord can't escape to the outside. the heat accumulates in there causing the cord to melt, causing a short circuit leading to an electrical short. you must always completely unravel a rolled up electrical cord before using it.
why did you keep it rolled up? this wouldn't have happened if i read the warning label. but that's not all. there's more? well... the fire started! - i got the fire to start! / - the fire started. after a lot of trouble, i got the fire to start.
that looks good. now this looks like a proper camping trip. you have to barbecue when you go camping. i'll make you a yummy wrap, honey. good, right? pork belly tastes best grilled over charcoal. dongwoo, eat up. i'm on a diet. i'm going to remove the fat.
oh, dongwoo! that's the best part. what a waste. i'll eat the fat. what a waste... this stuff is delicious. it's a bit heavy to just eat these. heavy? then how about some spicy kimchi stew? - sounds great. / - hold on. was there anything strange when you grilled meat on the charcoal?
the meat and stew were on the charcoal... there was a lot of stuff near the fire. were you all near the charcoal then? i don't really remember. geez... they were too busy eating to clean up after themselves properly. dad, i think the fire is too strong. yeah, the meat will burn.
son, go in if you're done eating. i'll clean up the rest. okay, father. he's left alone. i feel nervous with sejin alone. (he eats, eats and eats) - you eat a lot when you finish up. / - right. that's good stuff. when am i going to clean all this up?
(lonely) gosh, camping is all about eating. what's that sound? - honey! / - dad! so the fire started after you finished the meat. sejin, what did you do? i don't know. i just cleaned up. gosh... the fire happened as sejin was cleaning up
after they finished eating. what did he do and why did a fire start? dongwoo cut the fat when they were grilling. if the fat fell in the charcoal... one or two pieces always fall in between the grill. - the meat burned. / - right. a lot of grease fell in. the fire got big from the grease falling in. maybe the grease started the fire.
as you saw... a lot of grease from the pork fell into the charcoal. and to put the fire out quickly, he poured water on it. you know that water and oil don't mix. it caused an explosion. that's why his face was all burnt. if he used water... it actually showed water with the trash
for a second during the footage. there was water for a second. he can catch things shown for a second. there was a plastic bottle. so he poured water... are you trying to join our opinion? no, the water... come up with something else. dongwoo seemed to be shaken up
when we were talking. - we're right. / - really? the reason for the fire... - was... / - what is it? let's clean up. - is that it? / - that. - the water. / - look. - why use water? / - was... because he poured water on the charcoal
to put out the fire. in march 2015, a fire started at a restaurant when someone poured water on a flaming charcoal grill. in 2014 in damyang, jeollanam-do, someone tried to put out a charcoal fire with water while grilling meat causing an accident where 4 died.
pouring water on the greasy charcoal was what caused an explosion and fire. we'll find out what happens when you pour water on charcoal with meat drippings through an experiment. we conducted the experiment safely with help from an expert. first, a charcoal fire is started
and meat is grilled. the charcoal cooks the meat deliciously. however, every time oil from the meat drops down on the charcoal, the flames become stronger. a common mistake is to pour water on the charcoal when the big flames make you panic. pour the water on.
we'll try pouring water over some greasy coals. that's very dangerous. what will happen? the flames shoot up. as soon as the water is poured the flames shoot up. (let's take another look) (do not try this at home)
- that's insane. / - that's... only 200ml of water was poured in, but it made a huge flame. why did the water make the flame bigger instead of putting it out? when you grill meat, there will be grease. the grease drops into the charcoal or starts to collect under there. the grease is hot
and if cold water is mixed in, the water evaporates and goes up along with the hot flaming grease. it makes a really big flame. was it because we didn't pour enough water? so we tried pouring even more water. we poured 1l of water on the charcoal. will that put the fire out? you might think a big pour will put it out.
(the safety man pours water) (is it out?) - what happened? / - it's flaming again. it looked like the fire was going out, but the flames have become bigger. then... how do you put this fire out? with grease fires, you can smother the fire which will block oxygen.
smother? smothering a fire is putting out a fire by blocking oxygen. just put a non-burning lid over the fire and you can put it out easily. but it is very important that you do not open the lid and wait until the fire is completely out. the oxygen will revive the fire again.
i didn't know that. of course pouring water on greasy charcoal will cause an explosion! you might have common sense, but you might not know what to do about fires. okay? okay! - great, jungyu. / - in one guess. the old-timers win for getting
the second question right. - we're different. / - you are. you got it so precisely from the beginning. he's watched the evening news for over 10 years. 40 years more than dongwoo. (big age difference) i get called an old-timer for getting it right? - yes. / - geez... fine. at least i got it right.
i feel like i have a right to be here. we forget about safety a lot because we're too excited. we should really be careful in unfamiliar environments. that's why this is our chant! (communication first) (where am i? who are you?) (me? i'm the grim reaper and you're dead)
(i can't hear anything) (you can't? this is what it means to hear nothing) (remember this feeling) (do you have your ears covered to safety?) a project to keep the kids of korea safe. it's time for moms and kids to talk honestly. it's my child's private life part 2. she'll be educating children on sex. it's our special host ku seongae.
good to be here. hello. please do a good job today too. our last episode was a big hit. how was it for you? out of all the shows i do, this one suits me the best. i have a lot of sexual knowledge. i'm the best.
i've benefitted from this show. i watched the show with my mom. now my mom can be more honest. - right. you're still a minor. / - this is good for you. it was the perfect topic for you. this segment is a big hit. my child's private life. let's take a look at today's topic. - i have one. / - i do.
i have before. my first time was when i was 7. i was in 1st or 2nd grade. i did last year. i started last fall. i'm in one now. a lot of kids do it secretly so i'm not sure, but i bet a lot of them do. yes... a lot.
probably half of them. but they never tell you. puberty comes faster these days and kids become attracted to the opposite sex sooner. along with their studies, a child's biggest concern... is dating? from grades 4 through 6, 1 out of 4 students
have dated before. 61% of students are for dating. it feels like he's protecting me. just thinking about him gives me butterflies. i lose sleep every night. my child's safe private life. today's topic is dating. - they're like a couple. / - yeah. a couple going to the mart.
- right. / - how cute. when we were young, we'd get in trouble for this. - over dating? / - yes. back in our day... "get a girlfriend once you're in university." i can't wait that long! dongwoo, you're the youngest here. when was your first girlfriend?
for me... people may not believe this... but i've never had a girlfriend before. forever alone. do you even know what that means? you're too popular and sexy to call yourself that. "dongwoo, i really like you." i've had girls tell me that they like me... but it's like this.
it's different from what elders think. elders can start dating naturally without ever asking, "want to date me?" for students like us, we have to ask to make it official. they have to ask, "what's going on between us?" you can't make it ambiguous. - dongwoo... / - yes. he goes to the same school as my youngest son.
- really? / - that's right. - i bet you could ask your son. / - that's right. i'm going to call him before this shoot ends. i'm a very wholesome guy. when i was in 9th grade... my older sister and i are 3 years apart. - her friend... / - goodness! she came over often and i ended up liking her.
where did you go on dates back then? at the old mill? - the old watermill. / - stop it. a field of reeds, a bean patch... - there were bakeries too. / - bakeries... - a few cafes... / - tea houses. there were cafes too. not that many though. i see. we heard from an old-timer...
stop calling me that! the youngsters, the kids... we heard from both sides. let's find out what the kids want to know about dating. let's ask the kids now. i want to know the difference between friends... - and sweethearts. / - the difference. that's really hard.
- actually... / - it's really hard. there are so many famous songs about this. a very hard question and answer. that's why the songs are so relatable. how will we answer this unexpected question? - we're going to explain? / - in 60 seconds. here we go. we'll start with jungyu... me again?
you didn't give me any time to prepare. the difference between friends and sweethearts. dad, what's the difference? the difference between friends and sweethearts... you're not physically affectionate with your friend. what do you mean? i hold my friend's hand. - you kiss too? / - when we play games... we play games and give piggy-back rides...
- hug... / - and lock arms? - right. friends do that. / - and sit together. it's great. why? why would you hold your friend's hand? - hold hands... / - because we're close. - we're comfortable. / - you're close friends... friends shouldn't stroke or pat each other. i do that all the time. "that's good."
- "good job." / - stroke their hair... - pat their back... / - anyway... looks like i'm getting zero votes again. gosh, why am i so flustered? - this show is hard! / - 2, 1! sanghun, what's the difference? first, when you meet during the day, you're friends... what are you saying? - dad, we don't meet at night. / - you could.
- we can't at night. / - we have work. it's like this. you meet... and what do you talk about? you talk about video games. - but... / - dad, you can't talk well? - sweethearts... / - sweethearts... they talk about their future together. they get married.
married? - already? / - well... dad, i'm only in 5th grade. oh, you're in 5th grade. why would i get married? what's the difference? i can answer this very simply. listen. think about parting with your friend
and your sweetheart. when you part with your friend... - it's sad. you cry. / - right? but with a sweetheart, it's twice that. - what is? / - you cry twice as much. - what do you take friends for? / - how much? it's the same! you can't do something with a friend, but you can with a sweetheart... oh!
2, 1. this is too hard. they keep bombarding you with questions so you lose your track of thought. it's dongwoo's turn now. what's the difference, dad? i think friends can be physically affectionate and sweethearts can want to as well... is being physical all?
you want to do that with your friend? as you said before, friends can lock arms and so can sweethearts. but the thing is, a sweetheart wants to remember even the little details and recreate that feeling. dad, you're an old-fogey! i buy my friends gifts on their birthday.
i buy birthday presents. you can but as for me... i did that more for my sweetheart. a friend is more comfortable. - you look down on friends. / - no gifts for them? you don't do anything for your friends? it's because i've never had a girlfriend! i'm not going to do anything then. - 3, 2, 1. / - this is tough.
- dad. / - yes. you can hold hands with a friend when you play a game. - yes. / - it's like nothing. you feel nothing. - your story is interesting, dad. / - but... if you have a sweetheart and you hold her hand after a game... your hands keep sweating,
you get butterflies... you feel excited about her and if the girl feels that way about you, you tell each other that and make a promise that you'll try to be happy together. that's a sweetheart. dad, what academy do you go to? you're so good at talking. you don't feel anything with friends.
your heart will tell you. it's hard to express with words. why don't you have a sweetheart, dad? where's your sweetheart, dad? i'm a bit picky. you have high standards. that was so clear. (please find a sweetheart this year...) it was really hard to explain.
no point in voting. - let's not vote. / - no, no. let's see which of us explained the best. 1, 2, 3. - 5! / - 1! 2! - a lot of them voted for 5. / - 2. - please. / - 1. let's see who the kids voted for.
we'll see 2nd... - 2nd? / - we'll see 2nd first. we'll see 2nd first. - take them to the parents... / - sanghun. - 4 votes. / - 2nd only got 4 votes... 2nd only got 4 votes? - i'm still happy. / - then 1st... - what kind of ranking is this? / - 4 votes for 2nd. kids don't know about my gangster character.
it's such an old character. - let's see 3rd. / - 3rd. show us 3rd. (please) (3rd is sanghun with 3 votes!) sanghun. he got quite a few votes. very nice, sanghun. who do you think is last?
i bet my life savings that jungyu is last. then i'll raise you my car. i can bet anything on this. - goodness... / - how frustrating... we'll see the results at the same time. 2 episodes straight... (jongkook gets 1st!) (who got last?) jaehwan got 1 vote.
hold on... if you add it up... 2 votes. - i got 2 votes! / - no way... (jungyu got 2 votes!) (wasn't last as everyone predicted!) your life savings! (my life savings...) (oh, no!) i'm curious.
why did you vote for jungyu? i thought he wouldn't get as many votes as jaehwan. a sympathy vote. that's sadder. let's hear what the kids think about the difference between friends and sweethearts. what do you think is the difference between
friends and sweethearts? you can easily tell your friend anything that's on your mind. but if you say the wrong thing in front of your sweetheart, you can end up breaking up. - we have another hand. / - yes. let's hear from all of them. you can have fun and play with your friend, but if someone you know sees you when
you're with your sweetheart they can spread rumors. that would worry me. he hit the nail on the head. the rumors... they tease you if rumors spread. let's ask the moms and kids now. your kid or you have been in a relationship. - kids, be honest. / - right. vote honestly.
then let's see what the moms thought. my child has been in a relationship. let's see. i say around 22 votes. some may be suspecting and others may know for sure. - only 4? / - 4? - only 4? / - i don't think they know. are you not interested in your child?
- only 4... / - that's not enough. then let's see how many kids voted. i hope all of you did. i bet it's over 20. - i thought that at first. / - me too. i think over 20. i think over 20 voted honestly. - i say 25. / - me too. 5 didn't vote because their moms are here.
i've been in a relationship. how many voted? (how many kids?) - 5... 25, 25... / - is it 25? (goodness!) half. very different from what the moms thought. - very. / - totally. i don't think my boy has ever had a girlfriend.
why not? he's never had time to meet up with one. if my kid is dating, i'm totally for it. - really? / - yes. you're totally for it, but you don't think he has yet. - who's her son? / - are you? - here. / - the son.
has he dated? i'm curious. - have you? / - i have... (holy cow) congratulations. - you said you were totally for it. / - goodness! - congratulations! / - congratulations! what great news since you're totally for it. when did you date? - when was the first time? / - i had no idea.
- when? / - when i was 7 or 8. how old are you now? - i'm 12 now. / - see? your son says he's dated when he was 7. how do you feel? - great, right? / - betrayed? - you said you'd be for it... / - but... i'm for dating, but i had no idea when he was 7.
- he did it behind your back. / - right. i'm a bit upset i didn't know about that. - who's against dating? / - let's hear. against your child... oh, over here. you don't want them dating. in high school is okay but junior high and before... my daughters are very sensitive. when they like a boy, they like him way too much.
the boy doesn't like them back. - it's totally one-sided. / - i bet it makes you sad. it totally does! - yeah. / - your daughters are good enough! how dare he? so i'm against it. we heard from the moms. seongae, are a lot of kids really dating? according to a survey,
1 out of 4 kids are dating. especially during grades 4 through 6. they have crushes. ambiguous relationships. friends, crush and then dating... and then marriage. from grades 4 through 8... between crush and dating... this is when it's important to teach your child.
very important. the most important thing in dating is having a pure heart. like hwang sunwon's "showers." the saddest truth in life is you can only feel that innocence when you're that young. and it breaks my heart that it's being crushed. when you're both on the same page
and you hold hands for the first time... isn't that more exciting than anything? - right. / - that's right. once there's that emotional bond you get physical. - yes. / - i totally agree. - it's so exciting. / - and when you first kiss... - you hear bells. / - yes. it's not like some girl you just pick up... - someone really rang a bell then. / - really?
someone rang one. wasn't your first kiss in myeong-dong? that's when the bell... there are people that read manuals and take classes on dating because it's so hard for them. dating is hard for people in their 20s and 30s. - don't you think? / - yes, it's hard. - why is that? / - pick-up artists...
why is that? because you lost the most important thing when you were around grade 4 to 6. sharing your feelings. so what should sex education be like now? "did you do it? how far did you get?" not that. it should be how much you like someone. one mom said this. "my child likes him more!"
but this is just one of many cases. you have to do that too. you have to express that you like the person. express yourself. i like that person. congratulate your child on those feelings and make it so they express those feelings. so they say it. that's what you should incite.
then you ask, "do you think that person will like you back if you tell them?" they could get a yes or no. "what will you do if the other person likes you too? what will you do if the person doesn't like you?" ask them that. i've never been asked that. so they'll be sad if they're rejected but they should respect the other person's feelings.
if they don't learn that now, they'll spread rumors as revenge. what you really need to train your children on is how they should accept being rejected when the other person doesn't like them back. that's important. and when someone likes you, but you don't like them. then how should you turn them down...
- without hurting the person? / - that's hard... this is very important for kids to learn before they advance to dating. if they learn this, they won't try to get revenge after breakups when they grow up. they'll wish for the other's happiness. the basis of this is that pure love where you can express those beautiful feelings... give, take, handle things, reject...
these are all very important things to teach them. so i'd like parents to really focus on this. it's really important for the parents to put these things into action. - help them... / - we don't have that innocence. that's right. we don't have that... what do you think is an appropriate level of affection for elementary school students?
i think... this is just my opinion... - up to cheek kisses. / - cheek kisses. how sweet! i think the lip kiss comes after the cheek kiss. but if you lip kiss, you might start to want something else. a peck on the back on the hand or the forehead. "i had a good time. i'll see you tomorrow. bye. hold on..."
- a kiss on the forehead... "bye." / - how cute. - on the forehead. / - that's far enough. i think it's cool for a man to do that to a girl. it shows that we're not friends and we're sweethearts. it crosses that line. if you do that to a girl, she'll know that you're sweethearts. if you kiss a girl, she'll think she's loved.
do you think kissing is okay when you date? on the cheek, forehead, lips... all-inclusive. - be honest. / - be honest. this is just your opinion. it doesn't mean you've done it. just your opinion. now we'd better ask the moms. how many kids do you think voted yes? - 15. / - 15? really?
- times are different now. / - i see. - so they're understanding. / - right. let's see what the kids said. please show us. it's okay to kiss when you're dating. i wonder how many voted. - bet it's less than last time. / - it's not a lot. 5. not many of them. an unexpectedly low number.
i thought a lot would say yes. who said it's okay to kiss? who was it? oh, here. - it's sol. / - sol. - is it okay to kiss? / - she's going to convince me. why? like holding hands, it's easy to kiss the hand. and i think really close friends can kiss each other
on the cheek or forehead. - but not on the lips? / - no. because they're both young and they can't protect each other. so the kiss of love can protect them. great! what a great answer! sol... where's sol's mom? sol is right.
(proud) you really taught your daughter well. 5 kids said that kissing is okay. let's see what the moms think. vote if you're absolutely against kissing when your child is dating. please vote. let's see the results. - 1. / - no.
2. - 22. / - 12. 22. 12. sol's mom, did you vote? - i'm against it. / - she's against it. really? what's going on here? i feel like if they kiss,
they'll move too fast. let's here from sol then. give her the mic. i kind of think that too. but if there's a boy i like i'd rather have him kiss me than me try to kiss him. and what if that boy wants something else? i'd let him keep going, but if he goes too far
i'd dump him. you'd dump him... she's a smart girl and i feel like she knows how to say no. that's what she says but i feel like sol will really fall for the person if she starts to like someone. that's why i'm a bit worried. - i bet. / - all parents with daughters feel that way.
as smart as she is, she has strong convictions. she could think something is okay to do. but i bet you're worried about that. seongae, how far are kids going physically these days? more 6th graders are having sex these days. - the minority, right? / - that's right. but it's more than before.
i see. they think that they can just have sex if they feel like it after watching porn. - it's no big deal. / - that's wrong. and they're proud of doing it sooner. that culture has spread more. so when we talk about physical affection, it's not about parts.
we shouldn't think of it our way. that's why kids can't learn how to tie physical affection with emotions. if moms are always like... "did you kiss?" if moms are obsessive over a certain act. when the kids grow up, move up in school and start dating... you should ask them to proclaim
how far they're going to go. and tell them not to go beyond that. it's not so bad for boys. if you tell them, they'll prepare themselves. but if they don't proclaim anything, there might be arguments over whether the other person wants to. girls have to express that they're only willing to go so far even if they like the boy.
i think it's strange for a guy to ask a girl about physical affection. why? you can ask. "hey, i think it's time for us to kiss. can i kiss you?" that's not right. - be tougher... / - intentions should be confirmed. not about being tough... just look into her eyes and approach her. that's it. you've heard about cases
where a guy was dumped because he didn't make a move when the girl was expecting him to. so that's all been built up. grabbing the girl like a man or pushing the girl up against a wall... i love those gestures. it's because of old movies. it's because of my dad's movies. lastly, what we do for safety
is new dating. date someone you don't know? yes. date someone you don't know. in our day, we had pen pals. - we have a raised hand. / - what could there be? - on the internet. / - on the internet? with what? - cyber. / - what do you call it? posting comments. chatting.
right. chatting. that's right. - they know this stuff. / - chatting... dating through online chatting. they have anonymous random chatting now. you don't know anything about each other. first, you ask the person's gender and then their age. then you can set a time and place. - like a random hookup? / - yes.
(goodness) that's what it feels like. that's for people that might not understand. this is for the kids. have you ever chatted online with someone you don't know? if you have, press the button. ready... press the button.
this is if you've ever chatted online with a stranger. moms, how many kids do you think voted? excuse me? 20? i guess a lot of kids do that. because of computer games. you can chat within an online game. i've chatted online with a stranger. let's see how many voted.
i hope it's not a lot. - is it... / - not 27. it can't be 27... - 17. / - what a relief. 17 is so many. - that's over half. / - that's a lot. have you chatted online with a stranger before? - within a computer game. / - i see. so when you chat with someone in a game...
some people curse. someone else. when they ask my age and my school. - they ask that too? / - while playing games? this has been a big problem over the last 2 to 3 years. it can happen a lot through online chatting... but the chatting apps... that random chatting thing is an app.
that chatting app is a serious problem. nobody really has normal conversations on it. once you log in... we go in with pure intentions. and it's kind of mysterious and exciting to talk to a stranger. and you can tell them anything because it's totally anonymous. we conducted a survey.
don't be surprised. those people are men in their 20s and 30s that prey on girls grades 5 through 9. one common trait that they have is that they're good at listening to the children. - to gain their favor. / - right. they listen to everything they have to say. then they send photos of their body to the child and then ask the child
to send body shots too. they also ask for a photo showing the face. they call it a verification shot. and they ask you what school you go to. children end up telling them everything. like what time they finish academy. and once they get a photo of the face, they ask to meet. if you refuse to meet them,
they threaten to spread the photos of you. that's why i want to tell you all not to be deceived. parents, what you all need to do is... dads, teach them about social culture and you can prevent this by 90%. tell your kids there are good men, but a lot of bad men too. those bad men will use your curiosity
to approach you. before you know it, you're sending photos of your face and body. so what should you do? i'll be understanding. i'm on your side. so tell me if they ever ask you to meet. as your parents, we want to protect you. so please tell us whenever you're in danger
so you don't become a victim. i'd like you all to tell your kids that. kids should be careful too, right? never tell anyone your school, academy or home address. never on any chatting application. people prey on children. please keep this in mind. that was my child's private life.
how was it for you, seongae? they're going to have to fight through this harsh world alone. as adults, we should help them and not just accuse them. make them comfortable when you talk to them. point out the dangers and try to spot them together. we hope kids can be healthy and safe
when they date after watching this episode. this is safety news. this is for those that work in logging. march is when logging starts. you must be careful in a forest. do not let any other workers step in your radius when you're working. when using a chainsaw, wear safety equipment. and it's good to come up with a signal in advance
to use to alert others of a falling tree. so this is why they call you the new yu jaeseok (i'm the yu jaeseok of the new era) this has been safety news. - thank you. / - thank you. ("call you bae" by jimin)